If you have not thought earlier then start thinking that your wife is a very good wife, a very good mother, a very good daughter-in law, and if you keep on thinking that way she will turn into all the things you imagine her to be. It might be that she will not need to buy saree or jewelry for her. All is needed to use your golden tongue to recognize her work with your mind in the right gear. You will find that your wife is already in the same direction as you have thought. Your realization & recognition of her true involvement in family matters and her concerns about you make her happier and your married life will be quite happier.
It may be true that it is a an universal truth that generally wife remains happy when she is appreciated for what ever she does and the husband who are very normal by nature avoids to appreciate unnecessary for the common daily activities; as he also does for the family but never expect any kind of appreciation. It is also may be true that when the husband points out even once any wrong thing observed whereas ignoring most of the time; the wife that also does not like why she has been pointed out for this. Moreover when the husband praises whatever the wife wears she becomes very happy and if the husband likes that such type of cloths be avoided the wife feels very bad and says when other ladies wears your view are different and you are not concerned with what I likes; see other ladies are also wearing such type of clothes and their husband never pointed out. However, who knows the situation of the other husband may be more worse.
So, to be happy in your life appreciate your wife whatever she does for family, if she gets up at 5 A.M. to prepare breakfast for you and your children, appreciate her that I am so happy that I married you whereas many wives do not get up early in the morning and her children and husband are always late comer in school and office and moreover without breakfast and lunch and they have to go canteen. I thank God for such a caring wife I have.
It is rightly said that Don't be miser and be generous with admiration and appreciation to your wife for happy family otherwise the situation can be imagined with the normal man's life living with full of stress and strain without any complaints.